Why are relationships so hard today ?
Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is?…well the answer to all this is …..
We’re not prepared. We’re not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We’re not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us fall down to our feet…..!
It’s not love we’re looking for, only excitement and thrill in life. We want someone to watch movies and party with, not someone who understands us even in our deepest silences. We spend time together, we don’t make memories. We don’t want the boring life. We don’t want a partner for life, just someone who can make us feel alive right now, at this very instant. When the excitement fades…we discover nobody ever prepared us for the ordinaire ….!
We don’t believe in the beauty of certainty because we’re too blinded by the thrill of adventure…!
We don’t have time to love, we don’t have the patience to deal with relationships. We’re busy people chasing materialistic dreams and there’s no scope to love. Relationships are nothing more than convenience.
We look for instant pleasure in everything we do …. the things we post online, the careers we choose, and the people we fall in love with.
We believe more in meeting people than getting to know them. We’re greedy. We want to have everything. We get into relationships at the slightest attraction and step out, the moment we find someone better…! We don’t want to bring out the best in that one person. We want them to be perfect. We date a lot of people but rarely give any of them a real chance. We’re disappointed in everyone. Apparently, nothing’s worth our time and patience ….not even love.
People think that…WE HAVE TOO MUCH OF EACH OTHER ALREADY….SO THERE’S NOTHING LEFT TO TALK ABOUT….!!!
We’re the hook-up-break-up generation. We have sex first and then decide if we want to love someone. Sex comes easy, loyalty doesn’t. Getting laid has become the new getting drunk. You do it not because you love the other person, but because you want to feel good. It’s all the temporary fulfilment we need.
We’re the practical generation who runs by logic alone. We don’t know how to love madly anymore. We wouldn’t take a flight to a far-off land just to see someone we love. We’d break up because, long distance. We’re too sensible for love. Too sensible for our own good.
We don’t even value relationships anymore. We let go of the most WONDERFUL PEOPLE for ‘the other fish in the sea.’ We don’t consider them cherished anymore.
And this is the only point where we are lagging behind….for some…. these are cliche words that don’t really mean anything RIGHT???BUT AGAIN….
Everyone has a person or a group of friends who is always there for them no matter what..!so Guyssss….No matter what has happened, No matter what you’ve done. No matter what you will do…. JUST INFUSE YOUR LIFE WITH ACTION… with one of the most important thing of the world “LOVE”
As david levithan said…” It’s one thing to fall in love. It’s another to feel someone else fall in love with you, and to feel a responsibility toward that love.”